|Counselor Lessons » 1st Grade
First graders see Mrs. Clark every week for a Counselor Lesson. Each week, I will post the title of the Counselor Lesson and post supporting documents, if helpful to you, on this site. This link will give you details of my lessons and the Roosevelt Round-Up (PTA newsletter) will also periodically give you more information. Let me know if you need more information or have feedback on my lessons.
Lesson 1: Who is Your School Counselor? We toured our building noticing all the Bulletin Boards Mrs. Clark has made for them to help them get to know Roosevelt -- New Student Pictures, Recess Games & Rules, Peacewheel Board highlighting Peace-makers and Peace-breakers at our school, and Roosevelt Staff Picture Board. As we toured each stop, we discussed how they can see these through October to make sure they know all the new students in our school, the rules and options on our Playground, how we solve problems or conflicts at Roosevelt, and all the adults in our school they can ask for help if they needed or know their names like we know them! We then made our way to my classroom where we discussed "What is a School Counselor?" - Mrs. Clark LISTENS to us when we have a PROBLEM or if we have a QUESTION and we need HELP. She HELPS when we need HELP and make GOOD choices. What are Potato Points? - our rules for listening! With the use of our Mr. Potato Head doll as a reminder - we discussed what good listening "looks like": eyes on the speaker, hands to ourselves, raising our hand to speak, bringing our thinking caps with our ideas and good sharing, ears for listening to others, mouth closed if others are speaking, and feet still and pointed at the speaker. We then concluded our lesson by reading the book "Who is the School Counselor and Who is NOT the School Counselor" to quiz them on some of the important adults in our school and make sure they know how a school counselor can help them!
Lesson 2: Last week we talked about Who is Your School Counselor? & What goes on in Mrs. Clark’s Office? They remembered that Mrs. Clark LISTENS to us when we have a PROBLEM or if we have a QUESTION, she is there to HELP them make GOOD CHOICES. Our 1st grade classes make a book about what the School Counselor does at Roosevelt for our library – every student received a coloring page to add to our book "Who is your School Counselor" and at the end of our lesson we put our book together and read the story together, highlighting the pages they colored! We started practicing what we learned with our Potato Points and concluded our lesson with a 2 point listening day!
Lesson 3: Our Book is almost complete! While we wait for it to be ready for P/T Conferences, we met Kelso - our green frog puppet from Willow Pond who helps teach us about the 9 peacewheel options on the playground. We learned the difference between Small problems and Big problems and learned the hand-signs for these 9 choices by playing a fun game - Mrs. Clark says - to make sure they knew all 9 choices and are ready to work on the skills of each one of these choices the next few weeks. The 9 choices are: walk away, share and take turns, go to another game, ignore it, make a deal, talk it out, apologize, wait and cool off, tell them to stop. We will use these choices throughout the year and practice examples of "what would you do" throughout the year to continue to remind them of these choices, share examples of other issues students may be having and ways they solved them, and re-inforce that PEACEWHEEL choices are what work! Today, with the help of the 1st graders, Mrs. Clark role-played what “good” looks like and what “bad” looks like with these choices. Next week, we will watch a video of students using these strategies so we can see more ways to use these tools on our playground, in the classroom and at home!
Lesson 4: Did they remember all 9 -- yes they did! We reviewed those Peacewheel choices we discussed last week with a game of Mrs. Clark says and talked about the differences between a SMALL problem and a BIG problem. Small problems are problems they can handle on their own ex. someone not sharing a jumprope, cutting in line- Big problems you immediately get an adult's help, for example someone is hurting someone else, and we discussed that bulletin board we saw in the hall of all the adults they can ask for help at Roosevelt if they need help! We ask the students to try 2 of the 9 choices for a Small problem and if those 2 do not solve the problem, they get an adult to help them...so then it becomes a Big problem. We watched a video of students solving Small and Big problems in "It's your Choice: Kelso K-3 in Action". In the video, we see students making choices from the Peacewheel -- and then I chose a student to act out a way that is NOT from the Peacewheel! The video showed us: two students having the same problem with a student, but they solve it in different ways; a clip of two girls at recess trying to play hopscotch and watching a girl get frustrated and angry with a friend and make two choices on the peacewheel to solve the problem; and the last clip demonstrated a Big Problem and how to get help from an adult. We demonstrated how to do these 9 choices the Right way and the Wrong way - ex. calmly walking away vs. stomping feet and shouting "you aren't my friend anymore"....these examples were very funny, but some I see on our playground! *Peacewheels will be given out at P/T conferences for you to use at home as well as to help us emphasize these are the strategies we use at Roosevelt when they have a problem -- try 2 in small situations, then get an adult if they don't work or immediately get an adult if they have a big problem!
Lesson 5: We reviewed those 9 Peacewheel choices and our "body raps" and then read some books to go along with these choices --- showing us how these solutions helped out or were not used in our stories. "Peaceweek in Mrs. Fox's Class" - a story emphasizing how every day can be "Peaceweek" if they use the tools they have and know they are responsible for keeping the peace at Roosevelt! "When I Feel Angry" - a story emphasizing Wait & Cool Off and shares strategies for doing this the right way and what happens if you don't wait & cool off! "The Boy Who Wouldn't Share" - emphasizing Sharing and Taking Turns and what it feels like to be around someone who doesn't share or has to do things his way all the time. "I Just Don't Like the Sound of No" - a story emphasizing Talking it Out by helping students learn to listen to No, say "Okay" and walk away, and then come back to the question later. *These books can be checked out in our Roosevelt Counselor Resource Library.
Lesson 6: So they know the difference between Small Problems and Big Problems, but what is the difference between Tattling and Telling? . Wise Owl helps us with his WHO rules! WHO knows the rules about Tattling vs. Telling? We watched and discussed a video called "Wise Owl Says: When Telling isn't Tattling". We discussed the questions: Will it help anyone? Is someone in danger? Do you need an adult to help you solve a problem? If yes -- then you are telling! If you want to get someone in trouble or just tell an adult to so they can solve a problem for you, this is tattling. Students were able to know the difference between small problems they are strong enough to solve on their own using our peacewheel choices and big problems they need to TELL an adult immediately because they need help, get that "uh-oh" feeling, or someone is in danger!
Lesson 7: So - Good Listening – Check. Peacewheel Strategies – Check. Passengers are ready for a new flight and in 3, 2, 1, BLAST OFF - we went to space camp! Not outer space, personal space! We read about Louis, a boy who has trouble with personal space, in the book "Personal Space Camp" by Julia Cook. The book discusses personal space as the amount of space a person needs to feel comfortable and their own personal space "bubble" being about the size of a hula hoop at school, but everyone's bubble is a different size -- you must look and listen to what others are telling you about their personal bubble. Next week students will explore their personal space in space camp by: Testing out their own spaceship (hula-hoop); Letting each other know what to say and do if someone is in your personal space in a safe and respectful manner (Please stop; you are in my bubble); Exploring their own personal space and how others pop our bubbles (pushing in line, hurtful words). If they complete all of these exercises at Space Camp, Space Camp Certificates will be awarded! *Note: Throughout the year we will continue to work on how we let others know about our personal space needs in a safe and respectful way. Students who need additional practice with this skill will be invited to Space Camp again in a small group setting with me. *This book can be checked out in our Roosevelt Counselor Resource Library.
Lesson 8: We are back in our Flight Pattern, and in 3, 2, 1, BLAST OFF - we went to space camp! Not outer space, personal space! We reviewed what we read about Louis and his troubles with Personal Space, what he learned and how he became a Space Expert. We reviewed that personal space as the amount of space a person needs to feel comfortable and their own personal space "bubble" being about the size of a hula hoop at school, but everyone's bubble is a different size -- you must look and listen to what others are telling you about their personal bubble. Students explored their personal space in space camp by: Testing out their own spaceship (hula-hoop); Letting each other know what to say and do if someone is in your personal space in a safe and respectful manner (Please stop; you are in my bubble); Exploring their own personal space and how others pop our bubbles (pushing in line, hurtful words). All students passed Space Camp and were awarded their Space Camp Certificates to hang in the 1st grade classroom. We will continue to work on how we let others know about our personal space needs in a safe and respectful way…if a student is struggling with this, the teachers let me know that a return flight to Space Camp is needed! Personal Space is an important part of staying safe - knowing what to do in those "oh-oh" situations! We reviewed some scenario cards and tapped into what we discussed in Kindergarten regarding medicine safety, knowing your phone number, naming the safe adults and places around them, talking about tricky people, fire safety, water safety, house (Mr. Yuck stickers) safety, and bike safety. Next week we will learn our important "body-rap" we use anytime these "oh-oh" feelings come up!
Lesson 9: We are starting our Safe and Healthy Choices Unit this week. We defined "safety" as: to take actions to avoid getting hurt. We discussed some of their safety rules they already know - such as bike safety, playground safety, water safety, animal safety, tricky people, and fire safety. Our first lesson in this unit deals with Gun Safety - Eddie the Eagle helps teach us the "body rap" STOP, DON'T TOUCH, LEAVE THE AREA, TELL AN ADULT. In the video "Learn about Gun Safety with Eddie the Eagle" students see this useful body rap put to use when kids encounter a "big problem" by finding a gun. Students are encouraged to show you the body rap and talk about what they learned to help them know what to do when they feel danger! A letter about our Safe & Healthy Choices went home with your student this week and is also posted in a link below - thank you for talking about this at home with your child! If you would like to watch the video, here is the link: **If you would like to view the video, it is available on youtube - here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wIEBrb_wRYc
Lesson 10: With the help of Wise Owl and his niece Wendy, we talked about Healthy Choices & Safe Choices -- like trusting your "cool" meter instead of doing what other people say/do is "cool", making healthy eating and sleep choices for your body and mind to grow, exercising your body every day in some fun way, and sticking to the safety rules like wearing a helmet! Students shared with me some of their favorite healthy choices - like the fruits and exercises they love! We also talked about Medicine safety and knowing that we never take medicine without a trusted adult, knowing that medicine and candy look a lot alike and asking before we eat “candy”, and knowing that prescription medication is for the person whose name is on the bottle – only that person. We stressed being safe and always having adults give us medicine!
Lesson 11: Our Guest Speakers Eddie the Eagle & Wise Owl have helped us to know what we need to do when we feel danger, but we have one more helper – Safety Sam the Fireman and his dog, Rescue! Safety Sam and Rescue demonstrate in our video street, personal, and stranger or “tricky people” safety. Students see the WRONG and RIGHT behavior for the safety rules. Safety Sam and Rescue teach them ten tips in the video "Is it Okay?: How to Stay SAFE!". Street Safety Rules: 1. Look both ways before crossing the street 2. Don't chase balls into the street 3. Wait on curb or sidewalk at the bus stop Personal Safety Rules: 4. Never take medicine on your own and always with/from an adult you trust 5. Never pet or play with an animal you do not know 6. Always wear a helmet when you ride your bike and helmet and pads on anything with wheels Stranger Safety: 7. Stay away from strangers 8. Never answer the phone on your own or give out any information 9. Don't answer the door or let strangers in your house 10. Tell and Yell - always tell an adult you trust if a stranger bothers you and if one does YELL as loud as you can!
Lesson 12: Today we discussed what it meant to be “cool” and sometimes people make unsafe and unhealthy choices to be “cool”. We watched the video “Wow! Wow! Wubsy – Mr. Cool” where Walden asked his friends to make him “cool” … but in the end they see that being Mr. Cool is just being yourself! We discussed ALL the safety rules we have discussed so far and then wrapped up our “Safety Rules” with one more visitor – Officer Buckle & Gloria. We took a “funny” approach to safety by watching “Officer Buckle and Gloria” – emphasizing 101 important safety rules by this team…especially, always stick with your buddy! We added the new “rules” we learned from this great book to our Safety Rules idea chart….Wow, we have done A LOT! Next lesson students will choose one safety rule he/she would like to place on our Safe Choices Bulletin Board they will create for our school!
Lesson 13: We reviewed all the ideas they brainstormed last week as their “Safety Rules” and then every student received a star to pick a favorite rule to illustrate and hang in the halls on our Safety Reminder Bulletin Board for all the Roosevelt Students to see! Following the rules is important, but sometimes situations or others may make it hard to do what we know is right. We discussed that even Mrs. Clark needs reminders sometimes and when friends or adults remind us of a rule or suggest another way to solve something, being mad at them is unfair. We saw this example in "Franklin and the Bus Patrol" where Franklin and his friends talk about how being safe and following rules is their responsibility, but sometimes hard to do with friends. During this video, we discussed how following the rules and letting others know the rules is sometimes seen as "bossy" and can be a difficult thing to do with our peers; however, safety is more important than being "popular" with our friends -- just like we saw in our film. Working together and remembering to accept safety suggestions from other people is the thing to do! Thank you for continuing your Safety Rule discussions in your home and identifying a "plan" and working on "what-ifs" at home so your 1st grader knows what to do to be safe! *Come see their bulletin board across from the lunchroom!
Lesson 14: We discussed ALL the safety rules we have discussed so far and then wrapped up our “Safety Rules” with one more visitor – Officer Buckle & Gloria. We took a “funny” approach to safety by watching “Officer Buckle and Gloria” – emphasizing 101 important safety rules by this team…especially, always stick with your buddy! We added the new “rules” we learned from this great book to our Safety Rules idea chart….Wow, we have done A LOT! Every student received a star to pick a favorite rule to illustrate and hang in the halls on our Safety Reminder Bulletin Board for all the Roosevelt Students to see!
Lesson 15: Following the rules is important, but sometimes situations or others may make it hard to do what we know is right. We discussed that even Mrs. Clark needs reminders sometimes and when friends or adults remind us of a rule or suggest another way to solve something, being mad at them is unfair. We saw this example in "Franklin and the Bus Patrol" where Franklin and his friends talk about how being safe and following rules is their responsibility, but sometimes hard to do with friends. During this video, we discussed how following the rules and letting others know the rules is sometimes seen as "bossy" and can be a difficult thing to do with our peers; however, safety is more important than being "popular" with our friends -- just like we saw in our film. Working together and remembering to accept safety suggestions from other people is the thing to do! Thank you for continuing your Safety Rule discussions in your home and identifying a "plan" and working on "what-ifs" at home so your 1st grader knows what to do to be safe! *Come see their bulletin board across from the lunchroom!
Lesson 16: What makes you unique and special? We are all different and celebrating our differences helps us feel included, special, and happy. We read the story "Chrysanthemum" and discussed how different reactions to her name - by her parents, her classmates, and her teachers - changed the way Chrysanthemum felt about herself, her name, her school, and her mood. Using a paper doll of Chrysanthemum we say how the unkind words "wrinkled" her day and even though we say sorry or say kind words, those unkind actions and words are still there! So choosing our words and our actions is a choice we make every day...choose wisely so you don't leave wrinkles! We also watched the video after we discussed the book having them pay attention to how Chrysanthemum's mood and feelings changed through the story. **This book is available for checkout in our library in the counselor resources!
Lesson 17: "I meant what I said and I said what I meant. An elephant's faithful one hundred percent." In Horton Hears a Who, we watch our faithful friend Horton show the true meaning of friendship, kindness, commitment, perseverance, integrity, and forgiveness. As we watch this movie the next few weeks, we discuss these themes and the choices and challenges Horton faces as he keeps his faithful promise to the people of Whoville.
SPRING BREAK - enjoy your week off!
Lesson 18: Week 2 brings one of the most important messages we see Horton demonstrate for us - "A person's a person, no matter how small." Friendship and acceptance -- what an important topic!
Lesson 19: Week 3 of Horton -- almost to the end! I challenged students to think about: Who is your "Horton" in life? I heard mom, dad, sister, brother, aunt, uncles, friends, and teachers --- that person that no matter what sticks to what they say and shows you the dedication and love that Horton showed the people of Who-Ville. What if you did not have these people in your life - what would you do? We all need someone to believe in us no matter what -- why can't that person be you? We left off at the "We are here, we are here, we are here" -- working together as a team to save Whoville and help Horton.
Lesson 20: Its what we have been waiting for - will Horton be able to follow up on his promise to the people of Who-ville? Can the people of Who-ville work together to help Horton? The ending leaves you believing that anything is possible! Students talked about the characters in the movie and their qualities. Next week we will wrap up all we learned from Horton and let the whole school know about this Elephant that is Faithful 100%!
Lesson 21: CHOICES and CONSEQUENCES -- what are they and are what are positive examples and negative examples they experience. As we read the book "Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse" by Keven Henkes, students listened for the Positive and Negative Choices and Consequences Lilly made in the story. We discussed her decision and outcomes as a class. I then brought out my purple plastic purse and drew consequence cards from my purse and asked students to think about what might happen if.... you didn't listen in class, you brush your teeth, you stay up late watching T.V, you won't share a ball at recess, you left your coat on the playground, you got all your work done in class,,..all examples of our lesson. We concluded with the message of Mr. Slanger, Lilly's teacher about choices -- "Today was a difficult day. Tomorrow will be better." -- when we make negative choices, saying, meaning, and showing in our actions that we are really, really, really sorry and learning from our choices and consequences helps us do our best and show our best self to others! We also read the book "Me First" to help this group of 1st graders work on not always having to be 1st or the Best at everything...sometimes you need to listen to the "Sand-Witch!" **These books are available in our library in the counselor resources.
Lesson 22: Last week we read “Lily’s Purple Plastic Purse” and “Me First” to demonstrate CHOICES and CONSEQUENCES. We talked about how Secrets vs. Surprises is a tough one to know what to do sometimes and we read the book "The Trouble with Secrets". We began by discussing the difference between a secret and a surprise. What is a secret? We discussed the difference between "good" secrets - I call them surprises - and "bad" secrets - secrets that make us feel uncomfortable "holding" them from someone or not sharing with an adult. While we read the book, we discussed the different examples of secrets vs. surprises and discussed the need to ALWAYS talk with an adult when you get the uncomfortable feeling about a secret or the right to say "no, I do not want to keep that secret." We discussed the Touching Rule: No one has the right to touch you in your "swimsuit" private areas unless they are keeping you clean and healthy - like a doctor or a bath by a trusted adult.
**Read Once Upon A Dragon & **My Body Belongs to Me
Lesson 23: We read the book “Watch out College, Here I Come!” We discussed what Choices they have? What do they Love? What choices do they have in their Future after High School? This activity started them thinking about their Choices – their Passions – their Future and how even in 2nd grade, all that they do helps them increase their choices – develop experiences, people, and things they love – and keep their eye on their bright futures! We watched "Bernenstien Bears: On the Job" and followed Bear as he explored all kinds of options for his future -- we discussed what it would take to be a teacher, a bee-keeper, police-officer, and more while we watched the film.
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Wendi Ellis-Clark, School Counselor
Boise School District - Roosevelt Elementary
908 E. Jefferson Street
Boise, Idaho 83712
208-854-6030 (phone) 208-854-6031 (fax)