I have a Counselor Lesson every week with K students. I work with all students during "center" time so I see them in small groups for 12 -15 minutes to work on a specific skill. Each week I will post the title of the Counselor Lesson and post supporting documents, if helpful to you, on this site. This link will give you details of my lessons and the Roosevelt Round-Up (PTA newsletter) will also periodically give you more information. Let me know if you need more information or have feedback on my lessons.
Week 1: Who is Your School Counselor? Getting to know the adults in your school and what they can do for you! Mrs. Clark LISTENS to us when we have a PROBLEM or have a QUESTION and need HELP. She HELPS us HELP ourselves and make GOOD choices. Students took a "field trip" to my office and we discussed what FUN things I have going on in my office besides the classroom lessons they will have every week from me! We concluded out "field trip" by reading and discussing the book "Who is Mrs. Sand-Dollar?" - a story about the school counselor.
Week 2: We reviewed Who is Your School Counselor - someone who LISTENS to us when we have a PROBLEM or have a QUESTION and HELPS us make GOOD CHOICES! What are Potato Points - our rules for listening! With the use of our Mr. Potato Head doll as a reminder - we discussed what good listening "looks like": eyes on the speaker, hands to ourselves, raising our hand to speak, bringing our thinking caps with our ideas and good sharing, ears for listening to others, mouth closed if others are speaking, and feet still and pointed at the speaker. Every week we earn Potato Points for being great listeners in my classroom! This week we started into our Peacewheel - Conflict Management Model at Roosevelt. First up, talking about "Share and Take Turns" - 1 out of the 9 peacewheel options ---and practiced rock, paper, scissor as a tool to help them with this choice. We then did some examples of when you can use this tool at Roosevelt --- get in line at the same time, want the same seat at a table, deciding on a game at recess with a friend, and even at home with a sibling! I challenged them to use this at home to see if it works -- so Mom & Dad, practice up on your rock, paper, scissor skills at home because they got it and can use it!
Week 3: We’ve learned about "Share and Take Turns" by practicing Rock/Paper/Scissor last week, used that skill in my office playing with their peers, and today they shared how they have been using this tool at school and at home! We then practiced two new choices from our Peacewheel – "Please Stop" and "Walk Away." When someone is doing something we don’t want them to do, we practiced putting out our hand like a stop-sign and saying “please stop” in a firm, clear and kind voice. If that person continues we then put our hand again and say “I said, please stop” in that firm, clear and kind voice. We practiced this several times and we even showed examples of the wrong way to do this as well. I modeled the Walk Away strategy and showed some examples of how to use this in different situations such as saying “I’m going to make another choice because I’m not having fun” or “I feel like you are not listening to me so I am going to work at another table” and with quiet feet moving his/her body away from the situation into another spot or activity. I also demonstrated the wrong way to do this. We concluded the activity by demonstrating some examples and having students tell me if it was the right way or wrong way to tell someone to Stop or Walk Away --- they all knew it and showed their teacher what they knew! Bravo!
Week 4: We reviewed the three choices on our Peacewheel we have learned. We read the book "Share and Take Turns" building on what we practiced last week and seeing how they use this skill in many different situations - Rock, Paper,Scissor works in making decisions but we also share/take turns with knowledge, creativity, and sharing of their time. We also discussed what you can do if someone does not want to share and thinking ahead, like playdates and knowing that if they don't want to share that "special" stuffed animal, perhaps putting it away so the worry or conflict is not there during the playdate. We moved on to another choice by adding "Make a Deal" this week. Franklin and friends helped demonstrate for us the "Walk Away", "Talk it Out", "Please Stop", and "Make a Deal" parts of our Peacewheel in "Franklin's Nickname". In our video, we we saw how name-calling can be fun -- and sometimes it becomes a friendship problem. We watched Franklin, Bear, and all the gang navigate this issue in positive and negative ways. We see them do all the things we have talked about -- walk away, talk it out, help each other listen to what they need, make a deal, and be a good friend. Great examples of what we want from our Roosevelt gang as well!
Week 5: We reviewed the four Peacewheel Choices we have been working on and student reported to me how these have been working for them at school and home! We then read the book "Manners on the Playground" and talked about what they are doing on the playground and how they use good manners at school and home! I showed them some social scenario cards and asked them how manners were used or not used in these situations and if their new tools- Rock, Paper, Scissors, Please Stop, Walk Away, and Make a Deal - could help them in the situation! *This book can be checked out in our Roosevelt Counselor Resource Library.
Week 6: I shared with them how I see them using their manners at school and how I see them using our Peacewheel Choices with others at Roosevelt. I encouraged them to keep using these tools to resolve conflicts because friends like it when we use kind words and actions and not arguing! In our film this week, it shows Franklin and Beaver arguing all the time -- the effects of not resolving the conflicts peacefully results in friends not wanting to be around them, play with them, or help out. We watched "Franklin and the Crystal" where Beaver and Franklin learn how arguing can harm friendships and how important sharing is to being a good friend! Sometimes being first in line, captain of the team, or always having to play your game at recess cost you friends... thankfully Beaver and Franklin figured this out and so did my K friends!
Week 7: They are ready for another Peacewheel choice -- this week "Apologize or I'm Sorry". We watched Franklin and his friends apologize in "Franklin and the Trading Cards". When friends compete and try to out-do each other to get a special trading card from Franklin, they realize they haven't been a very good friend to Franklin and to each other and say "I'm sorry." We discussed when we know someone "really" means "I'm sorry" and how if the behavior does not stop, others do not accept the "I'm sorry" because they think it will just happen again!
Week 8: In preparation for Parent/Teacher Conferences, its time for me to see their work in class! This week I helped in classroom centers while students did their normal "work" and I was able to see how they were progressing with their academic skills, listening to adults and peers, following directions, and working in small groups. I love what I am seeing!!!
**Parent/Teacher Conferences --- your students are doing so well! I look forward to reading all the report card comments and connecting with them on their progress!
Week 9: Putting these concepts into play -- literally. Play time in Mrs. Clark's office during our lesson time today. We had magnets, legos, played kitchen, colored pictures and solved mazes. Students were allowed to choose what they wanted to play with and I listened for the use of our choices on our Peacewheel. Students also sampled some of the "fun" they can have during Recess Group in Mrs. Clark's office....stay tuned for more info on recess groups!
Week 10: They know the Peacewheel options, now its time to help them identify feelings and how they can name feelings, recognize what they need with their feelings, and let others know in appropriate ways. We played a Feelings Memory Game and while we played this game, we practices two more peacewheel choices of Talk it Out & Make a Deal. We practiced saying: "I feel ____ when ________________" and "How about if we do ________________ and then we can do ______________________?" We listened to how different people use different feeling words with the same pictures and how everybody needs different things - - ex. sometimes people need a hug when they are mad and other people want to be alone and not have someone touch them, both are good solutions and need to be communicated to those around us in an appropriate way. We practiced what this could look like and using the words to express what they need.
Have a great Thanksgiving Break - I'm so thankful to be at Roosevelt with your children!
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Wendi Ellis-Clark, School Counselor
Boise School District - Roosevelt Elementary
908 E. Jefferson Street
Boise, Idaho 83712
208-854-6030 (phone) 208-854-6031 (fax)